
Decide as a couple what type of
wedding you will be having. Large, Small, Destination or something intimate. At
this point there are many things to decide before the actual planning of the
wedding. While it’s best not to overdo it, laying the groundwork is best for
having a stress free engagement. While asking him which china patterns, or
which 5 shades of white for linens may not be advised. Try to include him in
your planning the wedding is for you both, suggest things he may like, for e.g.
Entertainment for the reception or surprise him with a groom’s cake. Try and take an engagement photo session, it's worth the investment. Also
continue getting to know and enjoy each other, don’t let this period be only
about the wedding. Getting to indulge in your significant other’s family is a
great way to start.
We’ll talk about the “B” word,
your budget.
Will you be footing the bill
as a couple or will parents or family members be assisting?
While setting your budget, do
note.
Will your honeymoon be
included?
Is your wedding planner fees
included?
Will your wedding bands be
included?
Will your other events “Bridal
shower; rehearsal dinner; bachelor/bachelorette parties” be included in this
budget?
If during your planning you go over budget,
will you be able to cover it, or will you scale down?
It is best to purchase a
wedding planning journal or binder to keep organized. Hire a wedding planner,
they can keep you on track best. If you decide to go it alone. KEEP ALL
RECEIPTS. You’ll be surprised how all those beautiful items you purchased for
the wedding adds up. Most wedding planning journals have a guideline of what
you should be doing and when and wedding planners generally give you updates
and a guide of what you should be doing and what is needed of you.
Enjoy the bliss and
congratulations on your engagement.