Sunday, September 1, 2013

Fusing Two cultures in marriage in a Destination Wedding.

There is a new wave in marriages these days, It's called Cultural Infusion. I had the pleasure of being apart of an Indian / African Wedding, hosted in the beautiful Trinidad and Tobago. The venue was beautiful, luscious colors, very vibrant. Gold, White & Yellow. Each side was represented very beautifully. There are a few key factors that is a must to plan a beautiful culturally infused wedding and a few elements in a destination wedding.

Be accommodating to the guests & family. It helps the wedding go smoothly.

Do some research find out more about your significant other's culture.
As one of the activities before the wedding have a Cultural game. Where you can break the ice and have each family find out more about each other in a relaxed setting.

Include a dish or a special treat from both cultures in either your cocktail hour or reception, or have a full tasting menu focusing on each culture, for a lunch or dinner before the wedding.

For a entertaining factor have a dance group showcasing each culture during the reception. Give your DJ music from both cultures or see if you can have Different live bands from both, so each side can be equally entertained.


As many of your guests will normally book an extra 2 days before and after your wedding. Make sure that your guests are occupied with events.

Plan a full schedule for each day, your guests will be at the hotel.

Find someone that is responsible in the crowd or see if your hotel has program's coordinator, to be the go-to person. (Making sure everyone is where they're supposed to be. The areas that are designated for scheduled events. Getting to and from locations if they are leaving the hotel property) 
This takes pressure off the couple, the bridal party, etc.


Photography is a very effective component in a destination wedding, in any wedding. Make sure they capture the special moments, pictorial views of details you would not be able to see. If possible see if you can have photography done for a few hours for some of your guest activities to show a full view of your wedding excursions.

Always remember to give your guests, handwritten thank you notes. It gives a special touch to those who traveled to be with you and your family.

A destination wedding is exciting, vibrant and Joyous. The beauty of a destination wedding is seeing another country or state with family and friends. It could be your childhood or grandparents home; A city or state you have visited before, the couple's dream honeymoon location. Whatever it is that's taking you to your destination, let it be one of peasant memories.


Make everyone feel valuable, a personal touch for friends and family, who could not make it, is a video of your wedding. It's a great present to give to loved ones who couldn't share your special day in person.

Congratulations To Alvin & Sparkle.

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